The Way
Friday, May 8, 2026 | You Cannot Do This Alone
Hebrews 10:24-25
"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another — and all the more as you see the Day approaching."
The writer of Hebrews does not say: stay connected to God. He says: do not give up meeting together.
The instruction is communal. The formation it describes cannot happen in isolation. Spurring one another on. Encouraging one another. These are not things a person can do for themselves in the secret place. They require another person in the room.
This is the formation truth the week has been building toward. Every discipline named this week — remaining, stillness, the closed door, the lamp carried close, the quiet place of rest — is interior, individual, practiced alone. But the branch does not remain in the vine in isolation. The vine grows branches together. The community is the context in which the individual formation becomes visible, accountable, and sustained.
The writer names a specific failure: some are in the habit of giving up meeting together. The habit of withdrawal from community is not presented as a minor preference. It is presented as something to resist — and all the more as the Day approaches.
The week has been interior. The secret place. The quiet. The lamp. The rest. All of it necessary. All of it real.
Friday names what keeps the interior formation from becoming self-referential — from becoming a spiritual project the person manages alone, with no accountability and no witness.
The community is the accountability structure of the formed life. The people who know you and love you are the ones who can see whether what is happening in the secret place is producing anything visible. They are the ones who spur you on when you slow down, who encourage you when the rooms have been resistant, who notice when you have given up meeting together and come to find you.
George Müller had a community. Luther had a community. The early church prayed together before the place shook. The seventy-two went out two by two.
The branch was never meant to be alone.
Show up this week. To whatever community holds you. Not when you feel like it — that is not the instruction. The instruction is: do not give up meeting together. The habit of presence is the discipline. The spurring and the encouraging are the fruit.
Is there a community of formed believers in your life that knows you well enough to spur you on — and are you showing up for it consistently enough for them to do that?
Lord, you did not design the formed life to be a private project. You designed it for community — for people who spur one another on, who show up when showing up is hard, who do not give up meeting together. I confess that I have sometimes withdrawn when I should have shown up. Pull me back to the shared table. Let me be the person who spurs and encourages — and let me receive the same. I pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Today I will: Show up to the community that holds me — or take a specific step toward finding one if I do not yet have it.
I will watch for: The habit of giving up meeting together — the small withdrawals, the missed gatherings, the drift away from the people who know me — and let that be the signal to return.
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